Are you and your spouse planning to divorce? Do you have young children who could be devastated by this?

How are you going to establish a parenting plan that will put their interests before your own? (If you don’t, the Court will.)

To help insure that you and your soon-to-be-ex do have your kids best interests before yours, write them a letter reminding them that you love them more than you hate each other.

Tell them that the parenting schedule you’re putting together will put them first. For example, describe how you arrange transfers that are the most convenient to them. Show them the schedule. Make certain they understand it will be OK. The goal is to have the schedule as stress free for them as possible.